I know people are going to say but Angie Jesus is the reason for the season. OK yes I agree religion and God is important however timing is a bit off. But that's a age old theology debate that will take to long to discuss.
Anyway the real reason for the season. Our family, the ones we love. Religion aside our friends and family are the ones who make the holidays worth while. So while your working to the bone planning the perfect day remember the reason your doing it.