The FARM is HERE!!!

Thirty-five years ago, I was sent to the Young Writers Conference by my middle school English teacher. While at the conference, they had us create a story that we could work on and develop after we left that day. However, at the conference, they helped us bring to life a short story version of our future book. That short story I created all those years ago still sits in a case in the middle school library I attended. How do I know? Visiting the school for an academic event for my middle daughter years later, they had a parent rest station in the library. I spoke to the librarian and told her that I had created the short storybook at the conference. She took me to the case and showed me the book was still there with all the other books created that day. Sitting among all the short stories created that day. It is still there, with all the other works added by the writers who attend the yearly conference. The pages have yellowed, but it's still there.  

So, with that, I am pleased to announce the official release of the farm! Join Amelia as she races against time to stop the legacy of the farm.

Available on Amazon Now!

Why We Are Obsessed With Bridgerton

So, before I start with this post, let me say I am not a professional in any capacity. I do not have a degree in relationships. I am a woman navigating this world where most relationships are battlefields.

Ready? Dear Gentle Readers.

Okay, sorry I couldn't help myself. But let me channel my own Lady Whistledown because she is in each of us. Also, Pen is my favorite character, so I related to her and this season. But enough of that, let's start. Be forewarned when it comes to love and everything that goes with it. I can be a blunt person. Was I once scorned by love? If you only knew. I was married once. But I am thankful he caused me so much misery and pain. I thank heavens he was such a horrible husband and did what he did because I would not have found the love of my life without him being the person he was. Sounds weird? I know it does, but because of him, I found my favorite fisherman, also known as the love of my life. This article may be blunt and bold. Also, the hearts and rainbows will be taking a back seat. If you are easily offended and want a fluff piece, you may want to read another article.

So why do we love Bridgerton so much? Well, for most women, it's not for the eye candy (which there is) but because romance is a dying art. Simple romantic gestures that used to be the norm, like opening a door or escorting a lady around a gathering, are non-existent. Most men will romance a gal until he has her, and then nothing. But it's not just the men's fault readers, it's ours too. Women have stopped putting an effort in as much as men.

Women had to become independent and strong to survive. Most of the ladies out there can handle their shit without needing a man. We can handle things so well that we forget to let romance happen. We ignore red flags and forget we are Queens, and if we want to attract a King, we need to give the same amount of love and attention. But I want to say this to the men, so listen. If you have a strong-willed, independent lady in your life. she wants you for you and NOT for what you can give her.

Even though many of us ladies may have our baggage, many of you do as well. If we do not accept each other for our past, present, and future, what is the point of being in a relationship with someone if we cannot do that?

Women of the world want romance and not a kiss and a slap in the ass. Don't get me wrong, they are nice, but watching the man you love do that and then do their own thing can be disheartening to most women. This author included. We want that great romance or to be with someone who accepts us for who we are and not for what others want us to be.

This author has seen a lot in her years on this planet, and I was blessed to see a few, not many, but a few great love stories play out in front of me. My Grandma was married twice before she found my Grandpa. Their love for each other taught me more about relationships than most relationships I know.

I will say I am no winner, and the man who loves me has to have nerves of steel. Can I handle my shit by myself? Yes, I had to during my first marriage. True romance is hard to find, especially when some ladies and men exploit it and what it is supposed to be. Because of this, many of us slink back to the walls and hide in the shadows. Am I giving up on romance? Never, I am the hopeless romantic who wants a carriage or mirror scene.

Do I want to have a man declare his love for me and let everyone know how much I am loved and cherished? Of course, This brings me to one of the reasons we all love Bridgerton. When the men or women finally realize they are in love, they go after what they want. They want passion and romance with their beloved as much as the one they are chasing.

Am I giving love advice here? Not in a million years, I am not qualified and do not want to touch that with a ten-foot pole. But I will say to all of you, dear readers. We may need to bring back a bit of that Regency romance to the modern day. We all need a little Bridgerton in our lives, regardless of our gender

Be gentle with yourself, dear reader, and be gentle with the ones you love.

Best wishes to your own Bridgerton,

Angie

Being Creative On Cooking

I have a ton of hurricane supplies and add to it monthly. Yes, I do rotate my supplies. I want to be creative with the meals. If any of these recipes come out good, I will post them on the recipe thread. I am trying to figure out things to do with my hurricane supplies once hurricane season ends, and we need to rotate them back to my pantry. I hope to come up with some creative ideas. Happy Cooking!

So Where Did The Year Go?

Being the first week in June, I need to ask? Where did the year go? Is it just me, or does anyone else feel like we blinked, and now it's June 4? I mean, we are one month out from the Fourth of July. If you feel like I do, you are not alone!

HAPPY JUNE EVERYONE!

Being Prepared for Hurricane Season

Does anyone want to answer where in the world May went? We will be heading into June in less than ten days. It means we are heading into hurricane season. What does that mean? Well, for most of the United States, nothing at all. But we should watch the weather and check our supplies in hurricane-prone states. Does that mean to go into full prepper mode? Not at all. My family keeps supplies on hand year-round and rotates through the stock. Being prepared is the key to any situation. Most people in Florida, such as myself, will keep supplies on hand. But if you are new here or did not know there was a list of supplies, click here to see what Floridadisaster.org recommends.

Also, if you do not live in a storm-prone area and have any upcoming trips to any location that could be affected by Hurricane season, Watch the weather. Why? Because hotels and resorts will shut down if they are in the direct path of a storm or if outside an evacuation zone, they may open up to residents who are in the evacuation zone so people can be safe. Last year, I saw many videos and TikTok's of people who came to Florida during a major hurricane or weather event and thought they could check in even after the property contacted the customer multiple times to tell them that the resort or hotel would not be available.

Honesty, I understand that people want a vacation, but people also need to realize that storms and hurricanes are not to be messed with. So my advice is to have a plan. Try to have supplies on hand so you can be safe and well-prepared. Also, remember, as much as you think you're prepared, you may forget that one thing, so ensure you check your supplies and list once a month to stay on top of things.

Be Safe Out There Folks!

Angie