Learning Lessons

 

Things in life have been crazy. But as life gets crazy I have learned many valuable lessons. I would love to share what has been going on, however the story is not only mine to share and for the sake of my loved ones I will share the lessons I learned.

1. Even if the worst things in life happen to you need to look at the positive and learn to lean on your faith. This is something I was struggling with prior to what happened and believe me I wanted to shout and yell at god or goddess. I asked the question why so many times.
2.  Keep yourself busy. I know this sounds odd, but during the forty days that wrapped me in a web of uncertainty I did do everything I could to keep my mind busy.
3. Remember you havea support team. Having the support team was a saving grace for me. I am truly thankful to the people who stood by me through this. 
4. Know your weaknesses. If something trigger's you during the crazy times, try to avoid whatever it is. I know its easier said than done. 
5. Get out of the house. Again I know for some it is not as easy to get out of the house. Some days when I was off from work I had to force myself out of the house and sit outside. I did though and it made a huge difference.

I hope some of these tips helped. The most important lesson I learned is: You are not alone. No matter what there is someone who will listen to your concerns and worries. I was normally I very self reliant person, however I learned to let my guard down and lean on people.

Be blessed and know you are loved.