That's right, I am saying it mom's you need other mom's! If you believe as a mom you don't need a fellow group of woman to talk to and help get you through the rough spots in life than I hope your rainbows and unicorns are fabulous. See I used to be one of those moms who did it all alone because I was forced to be alone in my world. My life has always put me into situations that I have been better friends with guys than girls. However, after I had my first baby what few male and female friends I had disappeared fast. I felt like I was always an outsider looking in and till this day I still feel like that. I will admit I am different I am the nerdy girl who loves Star Wars, Gaming and Ghost Hunting! I am happy if I did nothing but bake and read all day. For some, that's a bit off-putting, but I have always accepted people for who they are, so I am not going to pretend about who I am.
For twenty years I struggled with being a mom and messed up more times than I can count. Although my kids had a father, I was utterly alone in life when it came to my concerns as a mom and I felt I had no one to talk to. I thought since I was a member of the church would help me and I came to a quick realization that the churches I had visited made me feel worse because of the stuff I did in life and what I believed in. I tried to stick it out partially because of the pressure from my ex-mother-in-law, but by the time my son was born those people from the church were worse than the girls who used to talk behind my back in high school.
Also, I do want to make something clear, I am not a great mom. Sometimes I will say I am mediocre to crap mom at best. I screw up most of the time and I will admit I am probably the reason that my kids will need therapy and I will probably be paying for therapy for my kids well into the future, but there is one thing that I won't deny and that is I love my children, son-in-law, and granddaughter fiercely. These seven individuals give me a lease on life that keeps me going every day and I would move mountains for all of them. So no matter how much I have screwed up I have a clear conscience and can say I have tried all my life to be a mom.
However, personally, I was having a huge internal battle. I had no help or emotional support at home and whenever I tried to do something that would benefit myself as a mom and a woman I was always met with harsh comments or criticisms. So what changed? I had a talk with a very special someone one night and she told me that it was not my job to make everyone happy and that I needed to follow my dreams and be happy. I think that she knew what I was going through even though she was suffering her own personal battle at the time and her encouragement gave me the strength to continue following my dreams.
Fast forward a bit and I started watching these amazing mom live streams. Then I started to follow a moms group two years ago and began meeting these fabulous, amazing moms who come from all backgrounds in life. I finally can say for the first time since becoming a mom, I am feeling some acceptance and that is an amazingly empowering feeling to have. When we meet up online we can have what some would consider the most boring conversations, however, those 'boring' conversations run right into the conversations that have us laughing and crying depending on the topic. These women who I have come to share with don't belittle or judge. They give us fellow moms a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear to hear our stories and problems. But most of all, even though we are located all across the world we are a tribe. We are a group of moms who cheer each other on in celebration and awe when a new baby is born. When the worst happens, we cry alongside those hurting and offer a hand to help or an ear to listen. We are moms and we are the strongest tribe around.
I am hardly one to give advice, but since meeting all these amazing women my life has changed for the better. Find someone! Look online for a local moms group in your area, or even find a moms group online. Be brave and introduce yourself to the mom standing alone at the bus stop. You never know that mom could be just as lost and alone as you and what does it hurt to try!
So lets be honest, none of us are millionaires. Most of us are busy mom's working our butts off really trying not to lose our shit! I am lucky that my boyfriend is awesome and actually enjoys cooking as much as I do so I have someone who shares with the work in the kitchen. As much as I love following recipes, let's be honest. When you have had a hard day who really wants to follow a long, complicated recipe and spend a fortune on ingredients. An if you have kids you have homework, after school activities and probably a laundry list of things to do. So I have scoured PINTEREST to find you the recipes to help you out for both time and cost. *Please note that I do not own these recipes* I hope these recipes help! Mom's and even those Dad's need help from losing their shit! When you're on a budget and money gets tight, you need all the help you can get. The same holds true when you're working all the time to make sure you have w
I will admit Fall is my favorite season, However, I love Spring flowers! If you go to my Pinterest page I have a few boards dedicated to nature and plants! One thing I do love is how beautiful and different they can be! I have always had a fascination with odd looking flowers so I decided to do something fun and show you some of my favorites. The Laughing Iris The Parrot Flower Ophrys apulica Jeweled Car Praying Monks Flying Duck Ghost Pipe Monkey Orchid Dracula Sauli So what do you think? I personally think these flowers are beautiful! Have you ever seen a plant that looks like something else? Share below if you have. Blessings and Prayers, Angie